I've met many people who describe themselves as non-violent and warm-spirited, and by and large, that is how they show up in the world. B...

In a word, yes - even if that sounds paradoxical. As I often say, one of the kindest and most compassionate things we can do for a fellow
criticize, blame, and attack, are impulsive, 
have low patience and frustration tolerance, speak in a loud, demanding, and overbearing voice, threaten, are poor listeners, interrupt frequently 
and use blaming “you” statements. Aggressive communication is also an extension of low self-esteem (often caused by past abuse), unhealed emotional

Whether it's been about spiritual etiquette, mindfulness, or Ethical Intelligence, at the very heart of all I've taught and written about...